I have had some recent conversations about age and getting older so I thought I would write about it because I think age is all irrelevant in a lot of ways.  First of all, for those of you who don’t know me personally, I am 45.  Yes, I said it.  45!  Crazy enough there was a time in my life when that sounded ancient.  The funny thing is I have embraced this year I think more than any other.  Not because I am accepting my age but because it doesn’t seem to define who I am or what I can accomplish.   I started this blog last year just before turning 45 so maybe that is what has driven me to feel the most motivated and content, but whatever it is, I hope I can hold onto it as I inch closer to the big “5-0” in a few years.

Personally, I can look back and appreciate every phase of my life for what it was but I didn’t always feel comfortable in my own skin, which is what I love about my 40’s.  At this stage, you are starting to gain some freedom back as your kids get older but also enjoying (or surviving) these remaining years with them.

I recently had a conversation with my boss, who also just turned 45 and he made a statement that stuck with me.  He said we are at an age where we are still young enough to be relevant and have something to say without seeming authoritative or too out of touch.  I tend to agree for the most part but I also know that I have connected on social media with women of all ages and I love and appreciate each of them, regardless of age, because of who they are and what they stand for.  One of my favorite mom bloggers is 25 but seems wise beyond her years where I would never guess she is just 25.  In this instance, I think her age could be perceived negatively as not having enough experience but I disagree.  Each of us has a story to tell and life experiences to share.  Why not learn and grow from one another in spite of our age differences?

I also feel it is never too late to chase your dreams.  If you aren’t happy with your career, who says you can’t change it or shift directions?  I know some amazing women who have made huge career decisions in recent years (yes, they are in their 40’s) and couldn’t be happier.  I made a decision to leave my agency 12 years ago and take a chance on a start-up.  It has had its ups and downs but I have never grown or learned more in any other role.  Change is scary and hard but if we know the alternative is to stay stuck where we are year after year, why not take that leap of faith?

One of the things I have come to appreciate is that we all have our own strengths and passions that we bring.  Think about what drives and motivates you to be the best version of yourself.  Whether you are 25 or 45, get out there and seize the day.  Age doesn’t make any bit of difference if you are hustling and pursuing what you love.  Plus, it will keep you young and active!